I can admit, I'm not the most positive person to roam the earth. When a wave of self-doubt creeps into my mind, it's a wrap for me. I immediately think of every worse case scenario. I then begin to worry about the scenario I concocted in my mind. I had to come to the realization that my thoughts are the major cause of my negativity and anxiety.
Over the past couple months, I have been focused on removing the negative and inviting the positive thoughts and words. Before I rebranded to Tahylor Made, my apparel business was suffering. I was spinning my wheels wondering why my business wasn't as successful as other apparel brands. I started doubting myself. Doubting my entire business. I started thinking negative thoughts and wanting to give up because I felt I was a failure. As much as people told me I was heading on the right path, I just didn't see it. I vowed to quit the business multiple times. One Black Friday I got 0 sales; None, Zip, Nada. I felt like a loser. I cried so so much I started beating myself up.
In December 2019, I needed to change something. I needed to change the way I gave myself grace, my thoughts. and re-align my business the way I wanted. I removed the negative thoughts and removed myself from negative spaces. Rather than beating myself over something that doesn't work in my favor, I look at it as a necessary bump in the road that needed to happen to achieve my final goal. I just turned the way I thought into a more forgiving outcome. I needed to allow the positive parts take over and with that things started moving in my favor.
It's so easy to create negative thoughts and allow those thoughts to completely control your mindset. In your life you control your thoughts and actions. If you realize that you aren't projecting favorable thoughts for yourself, you are the only person that can correct that action. You Are What You Think!